Patron Saints
The five primary patron saints - St. Margaret Mary Alacoque, St. John Paul II, St. Thérèse of Lisieux, St. Mother Teresa of Calcutta, and St. John Vianney - guide us through their intercession and their examples in the various works we are called to do.
In 2023, our Mother Superior, Mother Philomena Maria, named St. Margaret Mary Alacoque as one of our patron saints. Below, we have a special excerpt from the memoirs of our foundress—Mother Margaret Mary—explaining the heavenly relationship between the Children of Mary and this powerful intercessor!
Our missionary work is patterned after our two sister-patron saints:
St. Thérèse of Lisieux and St. Mother Teresa of Calcutta.
Why St. Margaret Mary was Made Our Patron Saint by Mother Philomena Maria in 2023
From the memoirs of Mother Margaret Mary ~
Three persons were involved in founding the community of Children of Mary. First, Bishop Griffin, who, after I had been preparing for several years under his direction to take vows as a canonical hermit, discerned that being a hermit was not my call after all, and asked me to be open to other women coming to join me in my life of prayer. A bit saddened because I loved being alone with God but open to God’s will, I went as the Bishop had asked to spend a year in community in discernment and preparation.
While at the Visitation Monastery in Toledo, the Lord confirmed Bishop Griffin’s insight and He made clear what our charism was to be through the intercession of St. Margaret Mary. This is how that occurred. On October 13 the Sisters began a triduum of prayer to St. Margaret Mary before her feast day of October 16, 2000. We gathered as a community before her statue and prayed a litany to her. I silently prayed, ‘St. Margaret Mary, I have a devotion to the Sacred Heart, but please obtain for me the grace to understand more deeply what it means to be devoted to His Sacred Heart.’ During the next three days I read in a Catholic publication about the Boy Scouts possibly being denied funds from United Way because they would not accept homosexual count leaders! I was shocked; because in the hermitage with no TV or radio for the past eleven years, I had not realized the world had become so depraved. The next day I read that a little girl, seven years old, drowned her little three year old brother in a mud puddle. Heartbreaking! These things pierced my heart.
Then came October 16, 2000, St. Margaret Mary’s feast day. I had been looking forward to this day because on big feast days at the monastery Our Lord was enthroned on he altar and we took turns adoring Him throughout the day. I couldn’t wait! Some minutes before my assigned time to adore, I went to the chapel pondering the terrible things I had read the past two days. When my turn came to adore, something beyond my imagining happened. God communicated to me an astounding message. As I came forward and keenly down, I was saying to Him, ‘I know You overcame sin and death, but why, Lord, why is there still so much evil in the world? You are Truth Itself, so I believe You when You said You overcame sin and death…’ then a deep voice cut in saying loudly and clearly, ‘By the Blood of the Cross.’
After that, no more audible words. I was caught up in a timelessness, unaware of my surrounding and immersed in deep concentration trying to take in all that was being ‘poured’ into my brain. It was as if my mind was being stretched beyond its capacity to comprehend. When it ended, an hour had passed and the Sister who was taking my place to adore was there beside me. I returned to my place in choir with this silent prayer: ‘Lord, send me young women who love You passionately and we will form a community and adore You day and night.’
Returning home after the year at the Visitation, I shared this with Bishop Griffin, and showed him some pictures I had made trying to communicate what I had understood. After that he gave me my religious name of Margaret Mary, saying it had to be that because the prayer experience had happened on her feast day. He then held up the papers about the prayer experience and said, ‘This will be the charism of your community.’
What is the charism? To proclaim the Second Lifting. Christ said that He would draw all men to Himself when He was lifted up from the earth. The first lifting was on the Cross; the Second Lifting is in the monstrance. Adoring Jesus in the Most Blessed Sacrament is not a devotion—it is an essential part of the plan of salvation. When man humbles himself to adore God-with-us, Jesus in the Holy Eucharist, the head of satan will be crushed.
Beginning in 2022, Mother Philomena Maria developed a strong devotion to St. Margaret Mary. She bought a 4’ statue of her and placed it with the statue of the Sacred Heart of Jesus in the entrance to the chapel, and decided to add her to our list of patron saints.
Adoring Jesus in the Most Blessed Sacrament is not a devotion--it is an essential part of the plan of salvation.